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Priests, Nuns, "good" Germans, awarded-teachers, leadership-communication skills
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Priests, Nuns, "good" Germans, awarded-teachers, leadership-communication skills
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December 05, 2019, 03:39:29 AM »
Priests, Nuns, "good Germans," "awarded-teachers," and leadership-communication skills.
Here's an off-the-wall, possibly upsetting, topic:
To this very day--
--
most Nuns say they didn't know that Priests were seducing boys. Imagine how unconscious one must be to not notice the confusion, guilt, shame, and fear on a boy's face?
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during interviews most "good" Germans still say they didn't know what was going on in their estimated 1,000+
concentration camps
.
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most of us "good" Americans sleep nights pretending to not know that 1000+ children were separated from a parent at the Mexican border, and as of 3/12/24, it's now difficult to find out how many children are
still
separated.
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most "good" teachers, (especially the ones awarded "best" teacher), using their leadership-communication skills, non-verbally submit students to a fellow teacher known to be ineffective, to teach for another 24-hours.
A school with just one leader has no ineffective teachers
.
The above suggests that most "good" people are both unconscious and ineffective when it comes to inspiring others to be open and honest
. My experience has been that "good," "nice," "polite" people can't be trusted to tell the truth, to communicate spontaneously; they
withhold
their judgments, they communicate their judgments non-verbally, thereby causing more of the same.
If the above triggered upset or anger then you, the reader, are an enabler, you are withholding one or more significant
*
thoughts from someone of significance and, you are causing someone of significance to withhold an equal number of significant thoughts from you.
With 44+ years of 3-hour consultations I have not found any exceptions to this entanglement phenomenon. --Kerry
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"significant" A thought that if verbalized would cause upset, or anger. The word "verbalized" is a reminder that all withholds
are
being communicated non-verbally. The other doesn't know what's in the space only, that something (the experience of joyous love that comes from being in open and honest communication) is missing.
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