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Big Island Forum => Community Blog -- Click "New Topic" to post your thoughts. => Topic started by: Kerry on September 09, 2019, 05:36:33 AM
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What is parent dumping?
Parent dumping is when parents dump their dating teen on another unsuspecting teen and his/her parents; such parents have never done something similar to The Clearing Process (https://www.comcom121.org/clearing/) so as to restore and maintain their integrity.
- The majority of dating teens have not demonstrated an ability to do complete work; few have ever "cleaned" (https://www.comcom121.org/phpBB/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=724#p1253) a window or "detailed" a car.
- Most teens do not voluntarily acknowledge each and every abusive communication they deliver or receive.
- The majority of parents teach their child to deceive,1 evidenced by the fact that most dating teens con each other into deceiving both sets of parents so as to have sex. Read: An inconsiderate gift to give a prospective partner (https://www.comcom121.org/phpBB/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=697&sid=86f94bf9884f29b15048f15cee2d2684#p1212).
- Most parents teach their daughter to make their dates repeatedly beg for sex.
- The majority of parents do not insist that their daughter always insist upon "Dutch Treat," ergo, unconscious men come to resent all they have paid for dates; this is evidenced by the typical unfair divorce settlements by men who have yet to learn the value of service.
- The majority of teens do not know their parent's monthly household expenses.
- The majority of teens are hiding one or more significant2 thoughts from their parents.
Teens who have not been trained to do complete work are addicted to deceit, to withholding significant thoughts from everyone; they perfectly mirror the integrity of his/her parents. Such a teen will magnetically attract dates who are equally addicted to deceit and to withholding significant thoughts. There are no exceptions to this phenomenon.
1 All divorced couples simultaneously withheld a significant thought from each other on or before their first date. That is to say, they both brought their addictions to deceit, to withholding (https://www.bigislandforum.org/reunion/defs.htm) significant thoughts, into the relationship; such deceit determined the outcome.
2 "significant" Any thought that if verbalized would trigger upset or anger. The word "verbalized" reminds us that all withholds are always being communicated non-verbally (it's an aura/attitude kine thing).
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Last edited 12/4/19