Here's a physical analogy, a way of visualizing and disappearing barriers.The [free] Clearing Process for Couples —the process is a foolproof way of co-creating an experience of love with anyone.The premise:A significant thought you withhold from your partner serves as barrier to the experience of communication, of love. Love can't exist in a space occupied by deceit. The way to create/re-create the experience of love is for you to do The [free] Clearing Process. Then invite your partner to do the process. After you both have completed The Clearing Process then together you can do The [free] Clearing Process for Couples.Imagine there's a pile of sand between you and your partner. The pile is not so high that you can't see and interact with each other but high enough to serve as a barrier to hugging and to the experience of joyous love. The sand represents a pile of thoughts, an equal number of yours and theirs; thoughts you've both been withholding from each other. When we interact with a significant* grain of sand between ourselves and another it's referred to as "talking." Such love is conceptual (not joyous experiential love.) Talking causes supposedly unwanted problems to persist, it's a socially acceptable way to keep others at arm's length (conceptual love is missing the experience of conscious surrender of both to each other). Open, honest and responsible communication disappears all grains of sand—problems are resolved through to mutual satisfaction.The way to experience love is to shovel away (verbally communicate) each grain, each thought, until there is nothing between you (including, if applicable, the all important thought, if true, "You're not my number 10"). What's left is the experience of love. The way to create/maintain-recreate an experience of love at will is to keep the path clear of all grains of sand. One grain (one thought withheld) can serve as a barrier to the experience of communication, of love; no grains between you and another is referred to as being in-integrity, being one with each other. * "significant" meaning, any thought which if shared with a significant person would trigger upset, hurt, or anger.
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