| About Barriers
to
Comprehension
A.K.A.
(Also Known As) "Barriers to Communication"
If you read something and a few minutes later you
can't remember what you read, then you have a comprehension problem. In
other words, the author is communicating something to you and you have a
barrier to getting his/her communication.
Note: Most authors have
barriers to communicating their subject matter in a way that it gets
gotten, however, in the education game it's always the student's
responsibility to discover, mostly by asking others, (their parents,
fellow students/teachers) "Just what the heck is this author saying?"
What are barriers?
A barrier is something in the way. It's either
known or not known. If you aren't learning then you have a barrier.
For example: Few teachers are aware of the
barrier they have to communicating subject matter in a way that you get
it. Yet when they acknowledge, tell the truth about, their barriers, the
barriers begin to disappear and communication takes place.
A teacher may have an unconscious bias (they
are totally and completely unaware of it) towards students who are well-to-do, or good
looking, or a certain race, and they are in denial about their bias. Yet
you experience it: If it's real for you then it's a barrier. It will
serve as a barrier to communication between you and the teacher until
...(see below)*.
A barrier can be physical:
- The reading light is not bright enough.
- The room is too noisy or cold.
- There is someone in the room whose presence is
affecting your concentration.
- You can hear the TV in the other room
- You can have a hearing or eye problem
A barrier can be mental/psychological:
- You were traumatized earlier in the day or
life
- Two years ago your father, in a fit of anger,
told you are stupid and will never amount to anything.
- You are experiencing hurt/pain from an illness
or injury.
- You have a chemical imbalance.
Too much sugar or not enough vegetables.
A barrier can be any thought that comes to mind:
A barrier is any thought that comes to mind when
you ask you, or someone else asks you, "What's between you and
comprehending this material?" Yes, any thought that comes from your mind
is one of the barriers. The question must be asked over and over, perhaps
two dozen times, until your answer is "Nothing comes up." several times in
a row.
A barrier is an incomplete:
An incomplete is something that's floating around
in your mind occupying space.
For example:
- If you stole something two years ago and
haven't gotten acknowledged for stealing it then that incident is an
incomplete.
- If when you were five your mom asked you if
you brushed your teeth and you lied, that lie is an incomplete. It's a
communication that has yet to be completed.
- If your aunt sent you a check for your
birthday and you haven't thanked her, that perpetration is an
incomplete.
- If your father asked you to do something and
you sassed him and you have yet to acknowledge the sassing, "Dad I get
that I was abusive." then that incident is hanging out, way in
the back your mind,
occupying space, getting in the way of you being here now, of
comprehension.
- If you are having sex without your parents
and your partner's parents knowing it you are not only being deceitful
but you are supporting your partner in deceiving his/her parents. This
perpetration is sapping your energy. It's serving as a barrier to you
being whole and complete. Worse yet, it's sabotaging your partner's
success, it's supporting them in thwarting and deceiving their
parents. Thwarting begets thwarting.
- An incomplete can be that you came across a
word when you were reading that you didn't know. You think you might
know its definition, and you assume/hope that its meaning will become
evident within a few more sentences. You were whole and complete (you
were in-integrity) until you came up to that word but your commitment
to being incomplete took over and you went past the word rather than
looked up its definition. You are incomplete regarding that word.
All failures to learn a subject can be
traced to the fact the person went past a word they did not
understand.
Communication takes place in space.
If something is between you and another, an
incomplete, then communication does not take place. What happens is
talking takes place. Talking produces entirely different results than does
communication. Most importantly there can be no sustained experience of
love or satisfaction if you are stuck doing your imitation of
communication, if you are stuck believing you communicate when in fact you
are stuck talking.
* To
ask a question about barriers, to find out how to complete a specific incomplete, how to
acknowledge and complete a barrier between you and say a teacher/parent,
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