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Perpetrations: A perpetration is anything you have done or not done for which you feel badly. In this context it has nothing to do with the law. You may or may not be aware that you feel badly about it due to having so many other perpetrations. If another thinks it's a perpetration and you don't then it's not, at least not for you at this moment in time; it could be that you are simply unconscious.

Some examples of perpetrations—

Perhaps you feel badly for having stolen something, and, you've hid the act from everyone. Perhaps you never told anyone that you cheated on an exam. Quite possibly you led everyone to believe that you were an honest person yet you know you were involved in deceptions. Perhaps you lied to a classmate. You may have deceived someone you were dating. Quite possibly you now know that you sabotaged the success of your penmanship teacher.

Examples for Men

Examples for Women

The major life-time negative effects of a perpetration are not just that you did it, but that you have hid it, from yourself, some specific person, or from everyone. You are in fact walking around with no one knowing the real you. That's OK. Everyone with whom you relate is hiding his/her item of choice from you. They also have become their act. The effect is, your act is relating with everyone else's acts. I say "relating with" instead of "communicating with" because in truth, there is no experience of communication when there are withholds in a relationship; such interactions are referred to as talking.

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