Invitation to Communicate

How do I invite someone to get into communication with me?

The success you have in inviting others to communicate openly and honestly with you will be in direct proportion to two things.

1. How safe a space you are to have the person decline your invitation to communicate openly, honestly and spontaneously.

2. Your intention to be absolutely open and honest with everyone. If you have in mind that you are going to play it safe, or be polite, or not be honest, with say a police officer classmate, then it might take a bit longer for you to experience the value.

If you invite someone to be open and honest with you but your hidden, unconscious, agenda is to  be right, or better than, making them feel badly, it will reveal your self-righteousness.

If you are carrying around tons of withholds and perpetrations it may show on your face. Some people just look shut down, others are serious, lacking energy and vibrancy, no joy, no aliveness. Some older people are so bogged down with withholds and perpetrations that they actually look burdened. Some people are carrying around so much that there's an indefinable sneakiness that emanates from them. A perceptive person can read deceit or untrustworthiness in your aura. If you sense this is true for you, log on to The Clearing Process. It's free - no registration required. Dump your perpetrations/things you feel badly about. If you are completely honest in the clearing (sometimes it takes several sessions to get to the stuff that keeps you stuck) it will be an emotional transformational experience.